the "M" word

me and the bf are still together. things are still going good, almost too good. i somehow keep expecting something to go wrong...but nothing yet.

to recap:

we've known each other for 10+ years since he lives next door to my cousins

we've been talking, speaking, hooking up, dealing with each other (whatever you wanna call it) since last July

we've been in a relationship since last November

we're even doing the total monogamy thing



all the sudden, here came the "M" word:




he asked me if i wanted to



MOVE IN TOGETHER!!!


i bet y'all thought it was the other "M" word - lol!! we've talked about that too, but nothing concrete.

at first he asked if i wanted to move in his place and he would ask his aunt to move out. i told him i didn't feel comfortable with that. can't just uproot the lady like that...she's been in that house since before he was born.

then he suggested we just move away from Smalltown for good and get a place together.

y'all, i really don't know. there's always that "what if" factor in relationships when two people move in together. besides it would be three, with my daughter.

i really want to do it, but "what if" something happens that i don't want to expose her to??

i'm not really an "advice" listening-to person if that makes sense. as usual, y'all's comments are always appreciated :)